4 Things My Partner Does That Makes Me Happy
You are the best thing that ever happened to me. I could
never ask to share my world with anyone but you. You love me in ways no one
ever did. You forgave my mistakes and shortcomings and gave me every reason to
trust you with all my heart. Every relationship has hills and valleys; ups and
downs. We all want to enjoy the love ride on the hilltop without the thoughts
of ever crashing down. But sometimes reality happens and challenges arises, which
tests the love you have for your partner. These are times that you get to see
the true colors of your partner. You get to realize if your partner is the type
that will always compromise with you and be content with all your seeming imperfections.
Or walk away like they never cared.
Take a look at four (4) things my partner does that makes me
happy;
1) Forgive easily: Forgiveness
is the final form of love. When you are willing to look past your partner’s
flaws and imperfections and still want them, it shows you truly love them. It shows you care less about who is right
or wrong. All you care about is for peace to reign in the relationship. When you
forgive your partner for their shortcomings, it makes them feel remorseful.
They get a taste of a second chance to treat you better. The best apology is
changed behavior. Be willing to compromise with your partner even when all hope
seems lost; for it builds the respect they have for you. It is the key
ingredient that ensures your relationship stands the test of time. Forgive
easily.
2) Be content: Contentment
is what you should aim with your partner after the elation has worn off. Like
we said earlier, no relationship is perfect. Every relationship has hills and
valleys. At some point, you need to be completely satisfied with what you signed
up for. You can’t always expect the relationship to be a fairy tale. There will
be fights, arguments, complicated situations and exchange of hurtful words. But
this happens so you can better understand your partner. It enlightens you on
the things your partner likes and dislikes; the things they can tolerate and
the things they can’t. There will always be differences between you and your partner.
The differences are what makes them unique and special. No one is entirely perfect.
You need to look past all their flaws and imperfections and be content with
everything that makes them special.
3) Be Sensitive: A
sensitive partner knows what tickles your fancy and also what triggers your annoyance.
They are sensitive to your feelings and emotions. They know when you are
extremely happy and also when you are in great pain. A sensitive partner will
always want to make you happy. They would rather put your feelings and emotions
first before theirs. And try their best not to do anything that will make you
upset. They can be a source of inspiration to you when you are in despair; by helping
you get through the tough times. A sensitive partner is always there when you need
them the most.
4) Be Consistent: Consistency
is everything. It is the quality that ensures your relationship stands the test
of time. No one will want to be in a relationship with an inconsistent partner
who is one day here and another day elsewhere. Inconsistency not only makes
your partner lose their trust in you but also makes them lose the respect they
have for you. They will begin to see you like someone who doesn't make good on
promises. But when you always consistent with your partner, they will have
every reason to trust you. It will make you more respectable. Always be
consistent with your partner.
Thanks for reading.
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