A relationship with no arguments is a relationship with a lot of secrets. There is no such thing as a perfect relationship. We all have our shortcomings. At some point, we fall short of doing the things that makes our partner happy. This could lead to having misunderstanding and arguments. A real relationship has its ups and downs. This occurs only so we can understand our partner better. We all need that special someone who makes all our time and efforts worthwhile. There are certain ways to make your partner love you every day.
Take a look at five (5) ways to make your partner love you every day;
1. Know when to listen and when to act.
Miscommunication is one of the major reasons couple have misunderstanding and arguments. Often times when couples have misunderstanding, instead of trying to close the rift between them, one or both of them tears its further by being too judgmental. They start pointing fingers at each other; magnifying their insecurities. In order to have a peaceful relationship, you shouldn’t be too impulsive. You should know when to listen and when to act. Be attentive to the needs and complaints your partner keeps stressing about. Let you partner say all that they want to say without interrupting them. This gives them the impression that they have been heard and taken seriously. Let your actions be all about finding a solution rather than magnifying the problem. This attitude makes them respect and love you.
2. Be the first to apologize.
Do not let pride and ego come in between your relationship with your partner. Don’t let it be the reason you both have prolonged fights and arguments. Whenever you have a misunderstanding with your partner, do not let it stay longer than a day without it been resolved. Whatever happened in the past should stay in the past. Be the first to apologize. Be willing and eager to resolve the differences you have with your partner. Do not seat and fold your hands waiting for your partner to apologize first. Be the first to say sorry. This attitude impresses them with the fact that you value your relationship more than your ego. It shows that you are willing to compromise with them any day and anytime. This makes them love you every day.
3. Go the extra mile in trying to please them.
The best apology is changed behavior. True repentance is shown in your attitude afterwards. Your need to quickly resolve issues with your partner show you care less about who is wrong or right. It shows that you are more interested in their happiness. When they are happy, you are happy. Nothing is worth it if you aren’t happy. They make your world go round. Go the extra mile in trying to please them. Say nice things to them; do nice things for them; take them on special occasions; make them happy. In doing so, you are also making yourself happy.
4. Respect privacy.
No one likes a nosy person who likes meddling in other peoples private affairs. We all need our privacy even in a relationship. In your relationship with your partner, try not to go beyond your boundaries. Respect your partner’s privacy. Get to understand your partner likes and dislikes. Understand that everyone is uniquely different and should be treated with respect. When you respect your partner’s privacy, they will also respect you. As time goes on, they will lower their guard and fully let you in. This builds loyalty in your relationship with your partner. It makes them love you every day.
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5. Be content.
Love is a journey not a destination. The secret to happiness is contentment. In your love journey with your partner, you need to be content with them through the ups and downs of the relationship. There are going to be rough times in the relationship as well as good times. These are times when the love you have for them will be put to test. No relationship is perfect. Just like every other relationships, there are good times and bad times. The good times makes us grateful for the ones in our life. The bad times refines us; teaches us lessons that will be helpful to us in the nearest future.
Be content with your partner. Love and appreciate everything you both share together. Be totally satisfied with all they have to offer. Contentment with your partner is one of the reasons your relationship will stand the test of time. This will make them love and cherish you every day.
Thanks for reading.
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