4 Reasons I fell in Love with My Girlfriend
At first it was love at first sight. It seemed so good to be
true that I thought it was mere infatuation. I desired to be with her more than
anything else in the world. Could this be my soul mate or just another passer-by
friend? We meet everyone for a reason. Some people come in your life as
blessings, others come in your life as lessons. The wrong ones will always
teach you the right lessons. The right one will make you see reasons why it
never worked out with anyone else. They will appreciate all the things the
wrong ones took for granted.
Take a look at four (4) reasons I fell in love with my girlfriend;
1) She is caring and kind: I met a lot of girls in the past who made me feel I was too
difficult to love. They hardly ever complimented my efforts and was good at
magnifying my weaknesses. The right person will come into your life and handle all
your imperfections with love and understanding. They will care for you in ways
you have never felt before. They will see what a mess you are, and clean you up.
The right person will never make you beg for love and attention. They will make
you appreciate what it feels like to be in love.
2) She is a great
listener: The biggest communication problem is that we don’t listen to
understand. We only listen to reply. This could make you feel that all you do
is nag continuously. Someone who truly loves you will pay attention to what you
have to say without interrupting you. They listen with the intention to
understand and offer meaningful suggestions. They never judge or criticize your
opinions. They are compassionate enough to share your feelings and emotions
with you.
3) She is patient: Patience
is a virtue. It’s really not the ability to wait but how you act while you are
waiting. It’s not everyone that will be patient with you while trying to get
your life together. They could easily get irritated when you do something wrong
or slow in catching up. It’s only someone that truly loves you and has your
best interest in mind that can exercise patience when you fall short of doing
the right things. The right person for you knows that the best things in life
are worth waiting for; so they usually apply patience while waiting for the
best in you.
4) She appreciates
me: It is much easier to be with someone who always appreciates you than
someone who always find fault in everything you do. When you feel appreciated,
it makes you want to do more. It makes you happy knowing your efforts are being
noticed and appreciated. It is toxic to be in a relationship with someone who
never appreciates anything you do. It’s either they complain you don’t do enough
or you did what you weren't supposed to do. The right person will balance out
every aspect of your life. They will give you every reason to love and be
grateful for having them in your life.
Thanks for reading.
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