The life you want to live is on the other side of fear. What we have to learn to do, we learn by doing. Successful people are not specially gifted, they just work hard, then succeed on purpose.
The gap between the life you want and the life you are living is called mindset, focus and consistency. The key to success is to focus on goals, and not on obstacles. See obstacles as stepping stones to achieve greater heights. Focus on achieving your goals and you will begin to grow into someone that you can be proud of. What you stay focused on grows.
Here are three (3) simple rules in life;
1. If you don’t go after what you want, you will never have it.
If you don’t go after what you want, you will never have it and that is the simple truth. You can’t sit idle all day wishing or desiring to have something, and then the thing suddenly appears before you. Things don’t work that way. You need to proactively pursue it in order to have a chance of attaining it. It is importance to take action and pursue your desires in order to achieve your goals. Take small steps each day that will bring you closer to your goals.
Success, fulfillment, and achievement are not passive outcomes, but rather require active effort, determination, and perseverance. There are no two ways to achieve your desires other than going for them with all you got. Success requires hard work. If you want to be successful at attaining your desires, you need to take initiative, overcome obstacles, and work towards your goals with purpose and determination.
However, it’s important to note that while taking action is important, it does not guarantee success in all circumstances. There may be various factors beyond your control that can influence the outcome. Nevertheless, taking action and making efforts towards what you want increases your chances of success compared to simply waiting passively.
Make proactive effort and action in order to achieve your desires and goals, rather than relying solely on wishful thinking or passive waiting. As you take proactive measures towards achieving your goals, it encourages you to take full responsibility for your aspirations and work towards them with determination and perseverance.
2. If you don’t ask, the answer will always be no.
The reason most people don’t get what they want is because they simply don’t ask for it. If you don’t ask for what you want, the answer will always be no. It is important to take the initiative and ask for what you want in order to increase your chances of receiving a positive response. If you do not make an effort to ask for something you need, you will never receive it, as the default answer will always be “no.”
Ask and get prepared to receive. Asking for what you want requires courage, confidence, and effective communication skills. It may involve reaching out to others, expressing your needs or desires, and being proactive in seeking opportunities or solutions. By taking the initiative to ask, you open yourself up to possibilities and opportunities that may not have been available to you when you just kept mute.
However, it’s important to remember that asking does not guarantee that you will always receive a positive response. There may be various reasons why the answer could still be “no,” such as circumstances beyond your control or differing perspectives of others. It’s important to ask and be prepared for the possibility of rejection and to handle it gracefully, instead of not asking at all. If you don’t ask, the answer will always be no.
Ask for what you want without fear or hesitation. When you ask for something you want, it encourages you to take proactive steps towards your goals, rather than assuming that the answer will be “no” without even trying. By asking, you give yourself a chance to receive a positive response or to explore new possibilities, which can ultimately lead to your personal growth and success.
3. If you don’t step forward, you will always be in the same place.
If you don’t step forward, you will always be in the same place. It is important to take action and make progress in order to move forward and achieve personal growth. If you remain stagnant or inactive, you will remain in the same position and won’t be able to make any progress towards your goals or aspirations.
Stepping forward means taking proactive steps, being willing to leave your comfort zone, and taking risks in order to achieve your goals. It could involve trying new things, facing challenges, or pursuing opportunities that may require effort and courage. By taking action and stepping forward, you create momentum and open ourselves up to new possibilities and experiences.
Regardless of the challenges you encounter, keep moving forward. Remaining in the same place could signify complacency, fear of change, or a lack of motivation to pursue growth or improvement. When you refuse to take a step forward, you will miss out on some life changing opportunities, and you will keep experiencing the feeling of being stuck in a rut, where you are unable to progress towards your desired outcomes.
However, it’s important to note that stepping forward does not necessarily mean taking giant leaps or making radical changes all at once. It can also involve taking small, consistent steps towards your goals, as progress is often built incrementally over time.
Take action, be proactive, and take a step forward in order to make progress and avoid stagnation. As you keeping moving forward, you will be inspired to take risks, embrace change, and actively pursue personal growth and development in order to move towards your desired outcomes.
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