5 Ways to Restore Your Relationship

By Simobel Blog / May 2, 2020 / 0 Comments
If you let your ego get bigger than your love for your partner, the relationship will crumble. Never let your ego stand between you and your partner. Always apologize first, no matter who is wrong or right in the relationship....

3 Things You Can Control

By simobelblog / May 24, 2018 / 6 Comments
Your greatest weapon against stress and anxiety is your ability to choose one thought over another. You have the power to choose what thoughts you let dominate your mind. It all begins and ends in your mind. What you give...

5 Words of Advice for Married Couples

By Simobel Blog / April 25, 2020 / 2 Comments
Your feelings for your partner may come and go, but loving them unconditionally is your choice. You shouldn’t stop loving your partner because you no longer feel the way you felt at the start of the relationship. Loving your partner...
Reasons I fell in Love with My Girlfriend

4 Reasons I fell in Love with My Girlfriend

By Simobel Blog / July 7, 2019 / 0 Comments
At first it was love at first sight. It seemed so good to be true that I thought it was mere infatuation. I desired to be with her more than anything else in the world. Could this be my soul...
Ways to Improve Your Mindset

4 Ways to Improve Your Mindset

By Simobel Blog / July 22, 2019 / 2 Comments
The programming of your mind affects everything you do. You can do no more than you believe you are capable of doing. If you always feel inept to do something, you are automatically reprogramming your mindset for failure. The Mind...
Ways to Attract the Love of Your Life

3 Ways to Attract the Love of Your Life

By simobelblog / May 25, 2020 / 0 Comments
Some people fall in love a couple of times before ending up with the love of their life; while Some, after experiencing a few heartbreaks gave up the thought of having a happy ending with the one that’s truly meant...

7 Ways You Are Self-Sabotaging and How to Stop It

By Simobel Blog / April 15, 2020 / 2 Comments
Be careful what you say to yourself, because you are also listening. Every word you voice out, whether positive or negative will take its effect in due time. Sometimes we say things we don’t really mean, thinking it won’t have...
Signs to Know its Fake Love

5 Signs to Know its Fake Love

By simobelblog / October 7, 2018 / 2 Comments
Some people aren't loyal to you, they are loyal to their need of you. Once their need changes, so does their loyalty. When you truly love someone, you will put all selfish interests aside. You will give your partner all you...

5 Ways to Make Your Relationship Last Forever

By Simobel Blog / December 23, 2019 / 1 Comment
Nothing lasts forever; but true love does. True love is able to stand the test of time in spite of challenges. Every relationship has its good times and bad times. True love not only perseveres when things are going great...

5 Habits That Will Improve Your Life

By Simobel Blog / March 20, 2020 / 0 Comments
It takes 21 days to build a habit and 90 days to build a lifestyle. You will never improve your life until you change something you do every day. In a world that’s changing quickly, the one thing that guarantees...

5 Ways to Motivate Yourself Every Single Day

5 Ways to Motivate Yourself Every Single Day
You can’t change yesterday but you can do something today that will change tomorrow. Don’t spend time dwelling on the past. The longer you hold onto the past, you put the present on hold thereby making the future a complete mystery. You put yourself on hold of every good thing life has to offer. Every day is another opportunity to experience life’s manifold blessings. You may have had unfair things happen to you in the past, but the depth of your pain is an indication of the height of your future. Don’t worry yourself about the things you can’t change. Focus on the things you can change today that will make tomorrow better.
Take a look at five (5) ways to motivate yourself every single day;
1) Don’t dwell on the past: Whatever happened in the past is gone forever. Don’t compel yourself to live there anymore. Don’t let your past experience ruin your entire life. You won’t truly experience the gift of the present while still stuck in the past. Living in the past will keep you handicap. You can only experience life’s blessings when you are truly grateful for all that have happened in your life; the good, the bad and the ugly situations. They have all shaped you into the person you are today. Learn the lessons and put them to good use by focusing on the present to make the future a better place.
2) Don’t waste time feeling sorry for yourself: Self-pity will do you no good but rather put you in a depressed state. Don’t waste the time that you would have used to effect positive changes to wobble in self-pity. It will do nothing but steal your happiness. You can either keep feeling sorry for yourself or take a positive stance. Take ownership of your mistakes and shortfalls. Take ownership of your problems and take ownership of the solutions that will get those problems solved. Don’t waste time feeling sorry for yourself.
3) Don’t focus on things you can’t control: Your greatest weapon against any mental distress is your ability to choose one thought over another. You have the power to choose what thoughts should occupy your mind. It all begins and ends in your mind. Whatever you give power to, has power over you; if you allow it. Fill your mind with positive thoughts and the things you want manifested in reality. Don’t focus on things you can’t control. If you don’t like something, take away its only power; your attention. Focus only on the things you can control.
4) Don’t let others influence your emotions: Whatever you allow, will always continue. Don’t give anyone the power to influence your emotions. You have the power to decide what influences you. It’s your duty to guard your heart and mind against anyone that influences you to act in a negative way. Anyone or anything that doesn’t give you peace of mind should be completely eradicated. This will give you the opportunity to go after the things that will have a positive and rewarding effect on you. Every day is another opportunity to go after your dreams and desires. Your efforts can only be impeded when you let toxic people influence your emotions. They will discourage you from going after your dreams.
5) Don’t give up after the first failure: Like I always say, failure is part of success. You can never experience true success without a few bumps on the way. Success is more of a journey than a destination. Every successful person knows that there is never really any success without the experience of failure. Failure is simply another opportunity to go after what you want with a better experience. See failure as lessons. Utilize every lesson you learned from failure and try again. This time you have a better experience and will do better than your previous attempt. Keep striving to improve yourself. Don’t give up.

Thanks for reading.


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